Every relation is described by the level of closeness but blood-relation is something which need no words to describe. Though, with today’s busy life, it’s hard to stay close to your parents & here I’m giving some tips which will make you understand how to make parents happy. Some time, small-small things in life brings big changes and keep every relation close and loving.
As soon as you step to teenage, you start developing confidence that what you are doing is right and stop thinking what your parents want to say. You start feeling that there is a generation gap between you and your parents but it never means that you should not respect them or start ignoring them. Giving respect to your parents can give them precious smile and happiness to them.
Here are few tips to make your parents happy:
- Understand them: Try to understand their feelings, they loved you even when you keep on crying whole night, make them miss their parties, make home a mess or keep shouting whole day. They loved you without any conditions. Sometimes they want you to live life their way but the reason behind it is to make your future and life safe and happy. Try to think in a matured way and from your parent’s point of view.
- Show respect: There is nothing wrong in showing respect to your parents. It will only bring happiness to their face. Even if you don’t agree with their thinking, try to make them understand politely. Don’t use harsh words on them, which make them unhappy or they feel hurt. Giving respect is best way to make anyone happy; it cannot be compared with any precious gift.
- Spend some time: Forget all the tips and stop worrying about how to make parents happy. Time is the answer to everything. For parents, children’s are the best thing that can happen to them. If you will try to look into your parents heart, you will understand that they feel lonely if you avoid them. As our parents age grows, they start expecting more from their child. Thus, try to take some time for your parents. Take them to some family get together, picnic or just spend time at home with lots of fun and positive energy around.
- Remember their special events: Always celebrate parent’s birthday or special events, it may be some achievements and celebrate it with lots of love. You can take them out for dinner, buy some gifts (which they want since long time) or just spend this special moment with them and make them realize that you care for them.
- Show gratitude: Your parents done a lot for you and that are the only reason that you had you are enjoying your life with proper education and job. Parents do so much but never expect anything in return, so why not to say a thank you to them occasionally and show gratitude by a card, flower or a hug? This will surely bring you close to them and bring memories which your parents can cherish forever.
You can never deny that your parents are more experienced than you, thus you should think and listen with respect what they want to say and try to keep your view respectfully in front of your parents. By giving small respect, you give them an invaluable gift that makes them happy and proud.
BY HARSHVARDHAN SINGH.