The act of kindness is the most powerful and least costly in this world, especially when it is unexpected kindness.
Unexpected kindness is one which touches any person the most. This is because very few people in this world have to think about someone else. And in such a situation you being thoughtful matters a lot to the other person.
Kindness is something which comes to you naturally or some people may learn the importance of it during the course of time.
To be a kind person one has to be
1. Thoughtful :
The people who are kind are thoughtful of others, they try to put others ahead of themselves and think about their good. Being thoughtful is a fruit of loving spirit.
2. Be kind :
As it is said “Say kind words to hear kind echoes”, this is something which I truly believe. Be kind to others and others will be kind to you. It’s a give and take relationship, even if you don’t expect anything from others, the people will be kind to you if you are kind to them.
3. Think about people who quietly make a difference in your life :
You might meet people in your life who are complete strangers and they act kind to you or make you learn something important. Be kind enough to remember such people as they are the one who make the most impact in your lives. The reason is their doings inspire you to become like them.
4. Mannerism :
Mannerism is most important. To use your manners in right way is being kind. Manners play an important role in a person’s life. With the use of those manners one can be kind. For example, to Thank a person when you are thankful or to apologize to a person when you are sorry is being kind.
5. Understanding others :
Understanding people’s situation is being kind. Since you don’t judge them and try to understand their situation. A person who is understanding is always kind and connects with people better.
These are the basic things one can do to be kind enough in life. In this practical world, we tend to forget this kindness with which we are born, so to practice them is important.
An act of kindness can bring happiness to you and will bring happiness to others as well.
If you do these little things it will make difference in the way people see you and more importantly how you look at people.
Be kind and thoughtful towards yourself as well as towards others.
SANIYA P. RANE