Life is like an ocean; full of waves of ups and downs; some touch the shore and some stay in turbulence. These entire ups and downs make our life as a whole and we are ought to accept them with a smile and keep going.
Every person on this earth has got to play several roles; as a child, as a friend, as a mother/father; as a husband/wife; as a brother; sister, as an employee/employer and it goes on. When it comes to personal life, emotions got more weight age than practicality. Some tend to mix up practicality with emotional aspect and end messing up things. When it comes to professional life i.e. work place, persons are required to be quite professional and practical than emotional. Here again comes the problem when some people again mix up things and increase the risk of getting into depression. With all these discussions, one point is very clear; that whatever role you play at different places or at different situations in life; you have to maintain a required balance and have a clear set of mind when you are into role of life. There is no point in mixing up things or overlapping one over the other. Every aspect has different priorities on your part and you have to perform every role in a different way. God has bestowed upon us the ‘sixth sense’. Have you thought why?? It is because we can think and have a clear vision before we get into something. We have such a great ability to think; then why not use it in the best possible way.
Personal life requires different set of responsibilities, affections, love, emotions which every individual requires to move ahead in life. We; as a child required the love of our parents, our grand parents, siblings who at a later stage would require the same from us. At that time we should be ready enough to give them what they need and not run away from them. That would be sheer cowardliness. In a similar way, professional life has its own expectations from you which you ought to contribute to have a successful professional life.
Thus, it’s all up to you how you maintain balance between your professional and personal life; if not then you end up in mess and you are solely responsible for that. Your life is yours; so look before you leap!