Love is something which is not planned and it is that which just happens. Nobody ever knows that how many times will one fall in love? Whether the person who is with us is our soul mate or knows? These are things which are very difficult to judge when you fall in love. We all believe that we fall in love just once which lasts till eternity. But with this we also have to remember one more thing which is before you Kiss the prince you kiss several frogs and these are none but the wrong person who comes in our life.
I rather believe when we fall in love with the wrong person we do learn a lot of things from them. You somewhere come to know your faults and therefore when you meet the right persons you will not repeat that mistakes. Instead you will learn from the earlier mistakes and become the perfect person for your Mr or Miss Right. One more important thing is when you were with the wrong person the relationship doesn’t last long and things that are not meant to happen do not happen. This is a personal experience you might notice such things happening.
Let me explain you with an example, Sonia a college goings student who in her 12th student comes across a guy named Melroy through face book and she falls in love with him because of his sugary talks and she falls in love with him so deeply that she becomes blind and deaf to everyone’s word wherein her best friend told her not to fall for him he is not the right guy but she dint listen…Within two months of the relationship the guys broke up with him leaving her heartbroken so terribly to add worse to it during the valentine’s day all of it happens and hence Sonia is all shattered. She is upset but her best friend is always there for her. many guys during this while try to win her heart6 but she doesn’t believe in them any more until after period of 3 months she finds her childhood friend who accidently loves her from the time they were small but due to some reason got seperated.Though it took her long to trust but more than anything he was a friend and today they are together happy looking together at their future and he loves her like crazy and so much that he can’t bare tears in her eyes and they are happy today with a relationship of 3 years. This is the best example of that true love comes with lots of patience and you do fall in love with the wrong person.
Here are some reasons that tell us about the same…
- You can fall in love with the wrong person because when you love a person you use only your heart and not your mind
- We do not judge the person
- It is difficult to find out whether the person is saying a truth or lie?
- We are more often to get blinded when you fall in love with the wrong person
- We easily get slipped because of their sugary talks
This doesn’t mean we don’t fall in love but just that give yourself always a chance of doubt and remember that there is everyone for every person it is just that we got to find the right person…Maybe he/she is next to you got to find it out for yourself……
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