Yes ladies it’s time to pull up your socks and give that insecure boyfriend of you’re a run for his money! He has his girlfriends (friends of the female gender), he is friends with his friend’s girlfriends, his sister’s friends and his brother’s hot girl friend’s too; but if you ask him why is he so friendly with them you immediately get labeled as a ‘dehati’ or as someone who has a closed mind.
When you have college guy-friends or maybe a 3 am friend who is a guy, you become answerable to your boyfriend, male dominated society isn’t it? Not anymore it’s high time we girls took our men to the test and gave them a run for their money. Now you know all about the insecurity test don’t you? In case you don’t here’s how it goes, STEP ONE is to take a back foot and notice all the incidents where he’s been insecure. Once analyzed, look into yourself and make changes if you feel required.
Once clear on your side, start with STEP TWO if the insecurity still continues (we sincerely hope it doesn’t). Make it clear that you have your own life. Go to parties without him, talk up to your guy friends and if he gets jealous, tell him isn’t that exactly what he does! What’s fair for the goose is fair for the gander isn’t it? A little jealousy and independence is all it takes to get your boyfriend to understand how you feel.
In the entire process make sure you don’t hurt his ego, once you hit there you’ll loose all chances of getting him back. Both steps taken and hopefully he will get your point, hanging out with the girls you dislike will decrease and the dominating, questioning boyfriend will turn into the free spirited and trusting guy you always wanted.
Ultimately if all fails, there’s a lot of other fish in the sea and you don’t have to put up with crap is something I am sure you know 😉 But if you know he’s for ‘keeps’ then it’s these two simple steps to ensure you’re happily ever after.
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