Hatred Is A Strong Emotion


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Hatred is an emotion. Indeed a very strong emotion that can destroy anyone and anything. In the superlatives of life hatred is considered the strongest emotion, while love is considered a powerful force. There are certain times when you come across both love and hatred. When you do not know what to choose and how to decide what is wrong or right? Love happens where there is a good feeling and hatred happens where there is a bad feeling. We often do not know why we start hating a person. Sometimes may be it’s not even their fault is our insecurities that kill us.

In love mostly this feeling or strong emotion of hatred is developed. Love is supposed to be positive but it may turn negative even before you realize it. In love people get possessive and do not want to lose the one they love. They fear a certain person may just take away the other and be left all lonely and sad. In love people tend to believe they own the subject. And that nothing in the world can ever take someone or something that is theirs. Sad but true this leads to a lot of crimes in the name of love. However Hindi televisions show many programs like gumrah, ishq kills and savdaan India. Sometimes in order to make people especially teenagers aware about such stuff they kind of land up influencing them. It turns out to be a disaster. Parents do watch all these things and start worrying about children more and more thus leading to restrictions on their children.

Hatred is shown in many ways, by harming your own self and harming others. There are two types of people one who hurt themselves and two who hurt others. Let us read

  1. The motive behind harming your own self:-

A lot of people turn out to be psychos in love. They fall so much in love and love the other so much that they blame themselves for the other person’s mistake. If given an example of two lovers as most of the time it happens between lovers. If a girl loves a guy a lot and has spent most of her years in loving and honouring him. If he cheats on her or does something that is not accepted by her or something that is considered wrong in the relationship, she tends to feel hurt. She may think that somewhere she lacked something may be looks, behaviour or as a matter of fact may be she lacked giving him enough love. This kind of mentality is so wrong. She fails to understand that it is not her but it is the guy who cheated and it’s not right to blame herself. At that time it is the rejection and the hurt that makes her do crazy stuff like harming herself by cutting her wrist to feel the pain. Suddenly a mind-set is developed that it hurts more he hurt me more than I deserve let me harm myself and feel more pain. It is equivalent to taking drugs or drinking alcohol. It is stupidity I know but there are people who do that. They feel they cannot hurt the person whose hurt them or the third party that has been the cause of the failure in their relationship so why not hurt myself.

  1. The motive behind harming others:-

Well some people love themselves too much. They know it is not their mistake and still it hurts. In order to express their anger and hatred they land up harming others. Let’s say in love again if a girl has cheated this time it definitely hurts the male ego. According to this stupid superiority Indian culture which says men can do what they want and woman cannot, if women cheat the ego is hurt. Well a few men take it positively and move on while some men take it in such a negative way and get hurt. They start doing all sorts of weird crimes like threatening the girl or blackmailing her, he causes damage to her family members. Some people land up killing the other guy who probably has been involved physically with the girl, lady or woman that he loves. In many cases I have observed that such horrible things happening wherein they land up raping the girl and crushing her dignity. Rejection cannot be handled by many people. Men and women both seem to go all crazy when they get rejected but while doing the same to others they don’t feel anything.

We have read the motive behind all of this at this time of life. They need someone to make them calm down and tell them that whatever they are doing is wrong. Showing the right way is needed. At such a time they should not be shown too much love or anger. As it may take a toll on their minds and bodies. They are the victims of pain and resentment. They should be handled with care and must be treated in a more mature way. The people whom they love must ask for forgiveness and should being about a confidence in them that they will not hurt them again and it may even take weeks and months to help them come out of it but they should never lose hope and keep trying and being genuine to them. As all relationships come with a tag “handle with care”.

Hatred is a strong emotion of anger, bitterness, and resentment. It is one of the most dangerous feelings. A person can keep hatred for another for the rest of their lives but it is necessary to forgive. To err is human and to forgive is divine. Very few people really practice it in their lives. Hatred can change views about a person, a feeling and a thing. Hatred creates a disaster in the mind of an individual and may spread among people who have hatred in themselves too.

  • Carren Bryne.

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