Just like the bride who has beautiful dreams about the wedding the same is with groom as it is a big day for him too. The day where he from a guy will become a responsible man and also is a day that marks the end of his bachelor days. So the Groom chooses for him a best man and generally eh is his best friend or someone with whom he has a good compatibility. So being a best Man is a privilege and honors as the groom trusts you and wants you to be very next to him when he steps into his new life. So being A BEST MAN THERE ARE MANY ROLES THAT YOU GOT TO PLAY. THEY ARE…
- You have to be there for the groom whenever he requires you, like an adviser before and during the wedding. Be his personal aide. For a simple thing like helping him packing for his honeymoon
- The groom might have planned for groomsmen (men other then the best man) so you have to see that you all match with the Groom and also help the groom to choose his suit and also look after the end of the groomsmen
- Organize a bachelor’s party for him with the help of the other groomsmen. Don’t worry about the expenses you can share with all those attending the bash
- Attend the rehearsal with the groom and bride so that you have it perfectly on the BIG DAY when you walk down with them on the aisle
- Find a safe place for the Nuptial ring so that you don’t fumble when it’s time to give it a shot.
- Sign the marriage license as a witness along with the maid of honor
- Dance with the bride and the maid of honor this is also a chance and your duty (winks)
- Raise a toast for the bride and the groom. It’s most important and frightening duty. Read some article on how to raise a toast.
- Collect the envelopes that come as a gift for the couple. Keep it safe you may be asked to deposit in his account or keep it with you until they return from the honeymoon
- Drive the couple to the wedding night hotel or airport. See that you are sober if you have to perform the duty or else higher a car for them
I suppose now we know being a best man is not only clicking pictures and standing next to the groom but goes hand in hand with lot of beautiful duties.
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