Love is not just merely a word or an action. It is a feeling. A feeling that is related to so many emotions thoughts and behaviour. People say love cannot be defined, neither can love be denied. We all fall in love we all feel love. We all acknowledge love and appreciate it. Love is such a feeling that you cannot deny neither can you run away for a long time eventually love will happen. It will find you, love will find its way in any form and when it has found you nothing can stop you from falling into it. It is said that love starts from sinking into his arms and then your arms into his kitchen sink :-p very true. This is what happens and has been happening. There are people who show you big dreams and reality and in the end you fall into a ditch.
Love is such a vicious circle once you’re in it you cannot get out of it easily it comes to haunt you. Love is a beautiful feeling. But that beautiful feeling of love doesn’t last long. You get shattered broken and you are knocked down. That when you face reality that it isn’t so great love isn’t so much great and beautiful the way we think. People say love hurts indeed it does. But no one really gets hurt by the act of love. They get hurt by the act that their lover does. There is a difference here, it’s not the feeling of love that hurts it is the feeling of being cheated and lied to and the feeling of betrayal that hurts so much so that you do not know what all can you do to get rid of this feeling.
Love is made for fools well it isn’t true. We see love between our parents and grandparents. Now you cannot call your elderly fools. Can you? That must be love. But you see its all with a bond of commitment and something that is official. People out there are just to fool you; don’t you see the ads on TV and the weird love scene that you see on serials? You think that is love? Well it’s probably just a part of love and nothing more seriously! Love is much more different from what we see and from what is happening in the real world and in our real lives.
What happens when you put your trust into someone? What happens when you find happiness into others? What happens when you trust blindly and least expect them to hurt you? You know what happens you know it very well and the answer to all these questions is simple two words “it hurts”. Yes love doesn’t hurt. The other things that automatically get attached to love hurts. People face insecurity, they go through cheating and felling of being lied to at the smallest of the reasons. But those small reasons are linked to the bigger bad secrets, the nastier secrets of all times.
Never take stuff too lightly in love, every vibe counts. Energy doesn’t lie neither does it mis guide you. The person you are in love may misguide you. You start following someone’s footsteps that you love so much. But you don’t know is he going the right way. Give it a deep thought all this in friendship and relationships are not right things that you do. Even marriages fail at times and people are confused and minds are confused. Stop idolising boyfriends; these days you never know who is praying for you and who is playing with you.
There are so many people in the world just stabbing your back every single day and you don’t even know. Hurt, cheating, lying and betrayal are negative feelings. We all feel it at some point of time. And all these feelings coming from someone you love is as destructive as a volcano erupting and the burning lava just coming out and destroying everything. Anger is just like the volcano a person who is in love may be naughty but when he or she loves with whole heart and innocence he or she seems to be genuine and anyone who tries to mess around with this innocence may not know what they are going to get.
Life takes a minute to turn upside down and hearts take a second to break and depending on the amount of pain and hurt you are going through you react. You may react twice as harder and twice as stronger due to the ill effects of love. Love is not easy, cheating and betraying is. It doesn’t take long to break all the love and trust and cheat but loyalty is an expensive gift and not everyone can afford it and expecting such a gift from cheat people is worthless and just a waste of time. You may have a Rolls Royce and big cars but if you don’t have the character you can be easily used and easily fooled. Love is for the weak hearted people say. But it is not always the case. Love can be done only by the strong hearted, because everyone knows that when you love you will get hurt at some point in time. And when you get hurt it is difficult to get up and give the opposite person twice as much as a hard blow in the face and you are sure to be badly hurt.
Love is a rare gift and rare people find love where both the partners strive to be true and indeed remain faithful throughout their lives and live in togetherness and love. This world has now become very selfish and hard. The complexities of the world and the temptations of life have killed what is called as love in our life’s and in our world. Despite all the hurt cheating and betrayal we still fall in love and still believe in love and then complain love hurts, when they know the consequents and ill effects of love.
– Carren bryne.
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